Find a woman, get married and live happily ever after... | |||||||||||
...in 10 easy steps! | |||||||||||
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Step 1. Finding the Right Woman | |||||||||||
Whether or not you've already got someone in mind | |||||||||||
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Finding, meeting and dating a woman | |||||||||||
In a lot of ways this is the toughest step in the whole process. Finding a woman is hard enough, much less convincing her to talk to you and then subsequently go on a date with you. Whatever you do though, don't take this constant rejection personally - women are a surly lot and they have to deal with a lot of male scum. I'm going to assume you don't happen to be male scum. I hate male scum since their main purpose is to make women bitter and suspicious, and complicate the courtship process for the rest of us. | |||||||||||
The best way you can possibly meet a woman is through a friend. This can be a male or female friend, it doesn't really matter. And I don't mean a setup, since those never work, I mean a mutual aquaintance that can vouch for the fact that you aren't a total psycho. Basically this is a built in character reference, and removes one of the main obstacles to getting a date which is that women assume all men are jerks. Which is a pretty good assumption when you think about it. Now the trick is that you can't ask any of your friends to introduce you to women, no matter how casually, because this will instantly signal to everyone involved that you are desperate. So play it cool, and bide your time. And while you wait, join some clubs, play some sports, hit the bars, do the online dating thing or whatever else you want because you never know, you might get lucky. | |||||||||||
If you've already got someone in mind | |||||||||||
So now you've found yourself a woman. This is great, and you should be congratulated on making it this far. But honestly, chances are that she's not the right person to marry. Let's face it, 50% of marriages end in divorce, which means half of us guys are making the wrong decision when we head to the altar. And if you aren't married, the chances of you getting married to the current girl are much less than 50%. The average guy probably marries about his 10th real girlfriend (statistic pulled from ass), meaning you've got a pretty small chance of the current girl being "The One". Take some time, step back from it all and ask yourself if you really want to marry this girl. Notice the emphasis. In a lot of ways marriage is great and I can see why all sorts of guys would want to get married, but if you don't choose the right girl from the start it's going to be a collosal waste of time and money. | |||||||||||
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